Wedding Invitation Etiquette You Need to Know About

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Wedding invitations make for beautiful keepsakes. Though easy in theory, you will quickly realise that crafting (and sending out) the perfect wedding invitation can be a little tricky. There’s a lot more to it than just putting a card in the mail. For starters, there are etiquette rules that you need to navigate.

But don’t worry – we got you covered. Here’s a guide to wedding invitation etiquette to follow when crafting and sending out wedding invitations.

When to Send Your Invitation

Wedding invitations should be sent out at least six to eight weeks in advance of the wedding. That gives guest time to clear their schedules, request a day off,  and make travel arrangements if they don’t live in town.

If it’s a destination wedding, you must give your guests more time and send them out three or four months ahead of the wedding. You want to give them enough time to hunt for good accommodation deals for a destination wedding.

It would be best if you also asked your guests to RSVP on time so that you’ll have a final headcount and create your seating plan in time. If necessary, call your guests who haven’t responded within your requested time-frame and get their RSVP.

Mention the Attire

Guests sometimes forget that the bride is the centre of attraction of a wedding. It’s crucial to be clear about the level of formality you want your wedding to have. Mentioning cocktail attire, black tie, or casual attire are all acceptable.  If the wedding ceremony will take place on grass, you can inform your guest to make footwear choices accordingly.

The attire information must be put at the lower right-hand corner of your invitation where it’s visible. Your guests will appreciate the heads-up. The design of your invitation can also clue guests in. A formal, traditional invitation with calligraphy and letterpress will give your guests a hint to the event’s formal nature. In contrast, an invitation with a playful font and bright colours would fit a much more casual style.

Also read: How To Theme Your Wedding Venue

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Details about Gifts

Gifting is a well-known tradition for the newlyweds.  However, never mention anything about gifts on your wedding invitation as it might seem greedy. You want people to attend because you love them, not because of the gifts. Besides, family and close friends will probably spread the word about your preferred wedding gift choices when asked about it by guests.

Who to invite?

Determining a guest list is seemingly one of the first things that you need to do when planning a wedding. The guest list will affect your choice of venue and how you allocate your budget. If your wedding is small and intimate, you can cull your guest list and invite only those closest to you. It’s important to be specific and strict when trying to keep the numbers down. Decide where you’ll draw the line and stick to it, no matter what. Then make sure the addressing is precise when you are sending out the wedding invitations.

According to the standard rule, the names on the outer envelope indicate exactly who is invited to your wedding. For couples, Mr. and Mrs. followed by their name is standard. For singles, just put their name alone. Most of your guests will understand that without “and Guest” or another name on the wedding invitation, they aren’t invited with a plus-one. If you are still worried about unexpected guests showing up on your wedding day, you may want to add a kindly-worded note about keeping your wedding intimate to guests only.

Also read: How to Plan a Wedding During a Pandemic

Rules on Kids

It’s completely up to you (the couple) whether the kids are invited to the wedding or not. You need to decide whether you want kids to attend or you would prefer an adults-only celebration.

If you don’t want kids to attend the wedding, the invitation should only include the names of the couple or the guests’ full names. You don’t have to indicate that kids shouldn’t tag along. Only those mentioned should attend the wedding. But if your guest reply with their children’s names added, give them a call and explain you’re having an adults-only wedding, and you hope they can still attend.

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Wedding invitations are the first impression you will make on your guests. Using a theme is a personal choice, but remember that invitations set the tone of your wedding.

If you need help with arranging your wedding, Cedar Creek Estate offers wedding packages that come with an extensive array of complimentary inclusions, from a professional wedding coordinator to a wide selection of table centres and accessories to suit all budgets and requirements. We also have a different wedding ceremony and reception venues you can choose from.

Contact Cedar Creek Estate today on (07) 5545 1666  and let’s work together to plan your dream wedding.